An Advise from my side...

                           Why  the hell are there adults ?

 From childhood when we meet our first guest who has come to see us for the very first time ,we are told to behave properly(though we dont but get the habbit of it eventually ) but that properly gets transformed to " think before you speak " I mean that is good but the  consequences of it are you start faking it  up. Even if the person is not looking good , you say the damn thing again "You look great"(obviously it sth different from our native language ).When we are kids we are honest to ourselves to the every person we meet. Even you must have heard it this time "kids don't lie".It isn't said for no reason.

I mean we can clear up misunderstandings very fast. I am  just 16  because of my  birthday ofc, but still even my  mom says the same thing again  you haven't grown up.I get it all what mom is saying till the part you don't care of your own things and you are lazy but not the part that you have to say the things to please the other person .You can't just say anything to people .To be honest I dont fake it  for people , I like or dont like but people who are at the age of uncles they are the problem where I have to control  myself  .Because obviously you have parents .I have seen many parents do the same things  even my dad sometimes but mom  dosen't do  it .She will rather stay quiet than faking it all up.Even if she is teaching me same damn thing she isn't ingrained with the same thing.Maybe staying in the city for a long time interacting with people quite often has got her to shed that part of life in her .

Sometimes showing your real self is the best thing to do.

Being adult is all about enduring all the stress,frustration , cry ,anger and loneliness you have been holding up .You should  just free yourself with the pain** you have been holding up.Try doing it once .You can do it by calling a close friend,family member and even a single sheet of paper(a friend recommended to me ) And try to be clean when you are writing .Write it in caps if you can't write neatly.Being an adult can sometimes be judging people and crticising the way they look ,smile or do their own work.

Exception:(not a chemistry one)----->

You  should develop habits rather chaning your true nature or hiding yourself. You should know when to behave like a dad,mom,big sister/brother etc , this is knowing the responsility. You should know when to do right thing and should be able enough to make right decisions for your own benefits ,(pro tip take advise from people wiser than you especially your parents) This is call self independent. Now you get the idea what I was trying to say . I wish for the very first time that this blogreaches lots and lots of views.

**When I say  people are enduring their feelings inside them I mean people are trying to show positive emotions without them even having it. In psychology it is called Toxic positivity.(I just read about it and I just  configured my blog) 

[I m sorry for the grammer mistakes . I am still a learner you know and I would appreciate if you just comment down if you like my concept . I wasn't ready to show my blog to any person but I think sometimes you should just show yourself I am still an unknown blogger for fun. I hope you will help this message reach many.]