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Crazy fans are all around us and we cannot stop them. It is them who make the celebrities work hard. Take Avengers for example the first movie "Iron Man " was a risk to them until it became a multi-million dollar movie still being the most beloved among some fans till now. A fan is someone who admires another person and not follows. People have started behaving like crap and they don't understand the difference between personal and professional life. They believe in everything the star says like a blind man has his cane. They have fantasized about them so much that they go deaf when they hear something bad about them. They often neglect the possibility or reality of people they admire. He who could be God; or a human or just a miserable creature in this realm. For our convenience let's call them 'heroes'.
Fall and Rise of Heroes
There are two stages of these heroes - the fall and rise of heroes. But being a fan for many years and observing people in this respect I will be sharing a little about this and how you can be free from this.
There will always be a darker aspect to everything. A lighter one and a darker one, one could be more than the other. Some people are so intense in expressing that they love the person like gods and can do anything for them
There are many examples of this.
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History has experienced many influencers/heroes from before
- Michael Jordan signed a $2.5 million dollar deal with Nike which included custom-designed Air Jordans. Nike sold $70 million dollars within the first year.
- Muhammad one of the biggest influencers in history, and the importance of his status is defined in the Holy Quran as well as in the Sunnah, and he is still one of the biggest influencers for Muslims.
- Adolf Hitler was not even a German (originally), an Austrian. Amazingly, he was able to influence the German people to put him in power. But what did he do to make people believe and love him?
These were the people who made people blindly follow them just because of one specific trait in one specific field.
--"Never see people as sweet dishes or spices, always see them as water."--Neutrality is your ultimate weapon
Fans have always gone overboard with the people they love. And it is normal too. You just have to stop making these people kings of your lives in every field. Naturally, you want to know more about the person you follow or admire.
You need to start introspecting yourself and your life because as human beings we are all imperfect. When you start believing and improving your life you will start building a good amount of self-esteem and after meeting and sharing with people like these you will realize they all are just like you and me. We have been taught the wrong way in our lives, a human is someone who does something in his own way which may or may not be perfect.
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